Have you ever been through an infidelity experience or have you ever had the feeling that your partner is cheating on you? I am sure that your first thought was why your partner, with whom you shared so many experiences and whom you loved so much, did this to you. A partner would do this for many reasons and the level of pain that this experience may transmit depends on several factors.
Infidelity may destroy the self-esteem
After finding out that your partner is having an affair, you first thought may be that it is your fault and just like that, your self-esteem may enter into a declining phase. You may think that the cheating happened because of your actions and your personality, which in most cases, it is not true.
You may feel down for a period of time and maybe disappointed in yourself because you may think that you could have done something better in order to prevent it. Moreover, thinking that your spouse was attracted that a “more beautiful and attractive” woman or man is so damaging to the self-esteem.
Infidelity may destroy your idea of love
The idea that your partner cheated on you would bring so much pain into your life. You may also think that after this horrible experience, you may never find love again because you thought that your partner was the “the one” and that he or she was the perfect fit for you. And once these thoughts are shattered, your idea of love may enter into a dark place which will last for a time but will also eventually pass.
Infidelity will completely destroy the relationship
In my opinion, infidelity is the last and also the hardest piece when it comes to destroying a relationship. That because is also means losing respect for the cheater, losing all the love you felt for your partner and experiencing the betrayal of trust. And as a result of all these disturbing and harsh factors and the most important, due to the act of infidelity, the relationship will get to a finish line.
In conclusion, if you are going through a cheating experience, be sure that it will pass over time and you will get better because you won’t be sad forever, you will experience other relationships with other people who will offer you the best they have!
