How to keep your smile even though you are alone for Christmas


I know it’s hard, but don’t lose your hope because you can still be happy, just look a little closer! This is for those of you who have difficult relationships with your families, those of you who are going through break ups, who are in a bad place, for those of you who are spending Christmas without a loved one, who are working and can’t be home. Please, keep your smile because you are not alone, you have yourself and this is all that matters. Don’t lose yourself and keep shinning brighter than Christmas lights!


For some reasons, you are alone, but you don’t have to make yourself feel this way. Get up, dress up, make some hot chocolate and turn the Netflix on! Go watch a movie, your favorite show, make your favorite food, eat whatever you want! Eat that cookie, watch that show you’ve always wanted to! Make some photos, call your family and your friends and tell them how much you love them. Listen to your favorite songs while dressing up or cooking. Make some nice photos, play with lights. Go outside, go for a walk, go to see the Christmas lights and enjoy the moment. You are not alone, you have yourself and being able to put yourself alone in a better mood is the greatest gift you could have ever give to yourself. Remember, if you don’t do something for you, nobody will.


I know how it feels to lose someone, how it feels to be alone on holidays, how it feels to have difficult relationships. But also, I know that you have to be strong, if you lose yourself you lose everything. It’s scary to be alone, but it’s the best time to give yourself the love no one has ever gave it to you. This is the moment you learn to control your mind, your thoughts and your feelings. This is the very moment you know yourself. And of course, this makes you strong.

Things won’t be the same next year, anytime things can change. You can change something right now if you get up and do something. You have all the power, you are the only one who’s able to change something. Next year could be your year. Next year you’ll be surrounded by your loved ones, but you have to work for it. You have to work on yourself everyday and be able to be happy alone, because your happiness doesn’t depend on anyone else. First of all, make sure you have a great relationship with yourself, then you can think of others. Because, at the end of the day, you only have yourself. Merry Christmas and don’t lose faith!


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